The Big Life: Embrace the Mess, Work Your Side Hustle, Find a Monumental Relationship, and Become the Badass Babe You Were Meant to Be by Ann Shoket. The Big Life is filled with personal anecdotes from successful high-profile millennial women Enjoy and learn from the intimate conversations with a cast of compelling characters and Shoket’s own stories on her quest for The Big Life. So Suzy Says.